Life, the Universe and Everything is a Science Fiction and Fantasy conference that takes place in Utah every year. My good friend Heather Muir, a former guest-poster of this blog, was able to attend again this year. I asked her to share her experiences with us as an aspiring writer and how attending the conference has helped her achieve those goals.
I’ve been going to LTUE (Life, the Universe and Everything) forever and this year I was not excited. Last year I vowed I would not attend again. I was critical and annoyed at the panels, many of which are repeated every year. I had heard it all before. Don’t write a love triangle. Write what you love, not what’s popular. Don’t stalk editors in the bathroom. What not to put in your query letter. Wait thirty days, ninety days, a year before you revise anything. Never give up.
I had heard it all three times over. I constantly read all the writer, agent and editor blogs I can keep up with. I attend every conference I can afford, local and worldwide. I’m in a writing group, online and off. And I felt like this conference was for the total newbie.
It is a truth universally acknowledged that whining drowns out sense. As soon as I stopped whining, I had an epiphany. I was miserable because I acting like a newbie. I’d heard all of this advice ten times over but I was not following it. I had written three first drafts of three different novels and was working on a fourth. But I had yet to take the next step to revise. Or the many steps after that towards publication. I was not approaching authors because who was I to talk to such amazing, talented people? I was feeling like a newbie because I was acting like a newbie.
So this year, I decided not to be the newbie. I still attended a few panels but I spent more of my time talking to authors at their table in the dealers room, in between panels and in small groups in the hallway when I was lucky enough to squeeze in. I talked for hours with an old friend, catching up, recommending books and sharing what we were working on, which recharged my batteries more than anything. I spoke with random people I had never met before, practicing my pitch for the novel I had just finished. I asked every author I could for advice about revision (gulp!). My knees shook every time I approached someone.
By the end of the conference, I had a new friend from the front row of a folklore panel. She gave me her email and invited me to join a writing group.Two of the biggest names there remembered me from previous workshops, one of them remembered my story “fondly.” I almost squealed! I talked about gardening with another author. I sent an email to another writer, a follow up to our conversation, and got an email back! I shook the hand of a favorite local artist and made him smile.
Will all of these people remember me next year? Not without prompting for sure. Not without me gathering my courage and walking up to them with a smile. Did I learn anything new? Yes and no. But I changed my expectations. I was here to network and recharge my passion for writing. I succeeded in both ventures and am happy to say I will be going back every year. Hopefully with a novel to truly pitch. Besides, how can you pass up a three day conference that has a crazy amount of talent and community for only $30?!